We Want to Have a Good Time

We hear it said “I had a good time, I will have a good time or I want to have a good time.” So what is a good time? 

Good times seem to be exemplified by vacations, holidays, parties, the use of drugs or booze and other pleasures. The list is undoubtedly endless.

The craving or desire of most humans for a good time seems to be rooted in their desire for happiness.

Apparently most people do not find a good time in the most of life’s present moment situations. When good times occur they are usually very transient, short-lived and without a lasting effect. If happiness is what is being sought, it does not seem to be a permanent result of the good time. The good time syndrome seems to be an endless cycle for most people.

So is it possible that life is no more than the quest for a good time that ends with death. Or, is there another alternative that most people miss in their quest of the good time?

Two examples of Saints who I think were continuously present to the good time are St. Therese of Lisieux and Brother Lawrence of the Resurrection.

St. Therese found continual happiness in the practice of her Little Way. “Therese insisted that to be happy is an important way of showing our love for God, for he loves happy souls, those who are perfectly attuned to him, content with all he wills or permits. The happy soul has faith in the loving providence of God, even in times of darkness and perplexity.”

Likewise, Brother Lawrence had a similar experience. “Once he accepted the fact that he might spend the rest of his life in his troubled state of mind…he found himself changed all at once. And his soul, up to that time in turmoil, now experienced a profound inner peace, as if it were in its center and resting peace.”

A third example of someone who had a quest for happiness and peace is the Pilgrim in the story of the Way of a Pilgrim. The Pilgrim found peace and happiness in the ever presence of the Lord through the use to the Jesus Prayer.

In conclusion, I propose this question should we be seeking a good time or the ever presence of the Lord?


Written by Jim Cordie, 10/21/2007

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